Unfortunately, conversations like these, conversations women across America have every single day, are all but nonexistent on television at the moment. Despite the number of fantastic series currently on the air, finding a meaningful comedic or dramatic scene between women that doesn’t define them by the men in their lives, or their professions, is a bit like Captain Ahab’s quest for nautical justice. There are plenty of women on television, but writers in general seem far more comfortable writing for a woman surrounded by men rather than women with a gender balanced family, workplace, or group of friends.
The Bechdel test is one rubric for examining women in film (or, for our purposes, television). Lifted from cartoonist Alison Bechdel’s 1985 strip “The Rule” from her long-running comic Dykes To Watch Out For, the Bechdel test requires that a film meet three criteria. It must have:
1.) At least two women who
2.) Talk to each other about
3.) Something other than a man.
This can be a romantic interest, a family member, a coworker- anyone male. The idea of the test is to weed out films with women solely defined by their relationships with men. Given how incompletely so many women are on television are drawn, one might think this would be a provocative indicator. However, in recent episodes of the current network programming, only seven series failed this test (with the added caveat for television that the two women must be series regulars, rather than guest stars)- CBS comedy Rules of Engagement and dramas Hawaii 5-0 and Person of Interest, NBC’s Awake and Grimm, FOX’s Touch, and the CW’s Supernatural.
Several series are right on the edge, featuring incredibly short scenes that just barely tip them over the edge (pass criteria 1, but barely pass 2), including Blue Bloods and Hart of Dixie, and several more almost fail by having women who almost exclusively talk about their men, with just a dash of work talk or character examination pushing them through, including The Big Bang Theory and New Girl. ABC is by far the network that most easily passes the Bechdel, with strong female relationships at the core of most of their series, and CBS is the network that seems to struggle the most. This may be due to their high number of procedurals, which often eschew relationships and character development in favor of the case of the week, though The Good Wife is a notable exception to this (both as a CBS series and a procedural).
There are a few shows getting it right though. Parks and Rec (currently on hiatus) features probably the strongest female relationship on television with Leslie and Ann. The Vampire Diaries has several prominent, interesting, and dynamic female friendships and for balanced groups, it’s hard to beat Happy Endings and Community, which write just as well for their male and female characters. In fact, one or two series would fail a reverse Bechdel (two male regular cast members must talk about anything besides women), notably Once Upon a Time.
Simply put, women spend far less time talking to each other on television than men do. Perhaps we need more female creators and producers, perhaps we need a higher percentage of female writers in writing rooms. Perhaps the problem is a larger societal one, teaching children from early on that men’s stories are more interesting than women’s. No matter the cause, it’s past time for a change. Television allows for complex, nuanced storytelling over time- character exploration over years and on a grander scale than most mediums allow. Women spend at least half their time talking to women- it’s time we showed it.